Why can’t we communicate?

Communication…this can mean a blissful profit making business or relationship. I can also be the downfall of your business and very tremulous relationship.

Then I thought what is the basis of this problem? What is the fundamental constant in this situation? Then the answer struck me one morning like a thunder bolt! I share this in hopes it will help some of you out there as it has helped me.

Have you ever tried to share information that really had you excited with someone  close to you and when they heard it, they responded like they could careless! No matter how many times you tried to communicate the concept, they just didn’t get it. Now to you the vision was crystal clear. The outcome was easy to predict, but to them it was meaningless.

Why can’t they get it? The answer is information & experience! Let me explain. All of us are programed everyday by what we look at on our cell phones, by who we hang around, the music we listen to, what we watch on T.V. our personal life experience’s and even the books we read.

All of these things shape your expectations and world view. In return this information reflects your choices. To put it plain we end up not speaking the same language anymore. We choose diffrent tribes and end up with diffrent mentalities. This has an impact on the course we take in life & the results of our choices.

If you are focused on growing and learning new things and facing your fears. If you are focused on how to actually increase your value and using faith instead of fear. If you are listening to powerful speakers that motivate you every day this will be your new algorithm. You will reap the rewards of your programing. You will live in a completely diffrent world.

On the other hand if you are trying to share this type of information with someone who watches drama filled T.V.shows every day. They keep up with all the celebrities. Their social media consumption is filled with drama plus twerk videos. They watch other people so they can talk to their other gossiping friends. If all they focuse on is what they don’t like. All the music they listen to is perverted and promotes degenerate behavior. For kids with no responsibilities this is expected but not for grown people. These same people want to just “Hit the lottery”. They have NO INTEREST in learning anything new. You can’t tell them or teach them sh%t. They literally have no interest in anything except the things “they” want. Because they don’t want to go through the hard process of developing into a successful person, they believe in “Magic money” Their algorithms is programing them for a much different life experience.

“If 2 or more come together in my name…..” This verse contains a hint of the power we all have.

Think about the times you and your partner achieved something big that you both wanted. Think about how you went to the next level in your business or life in general. Without me even knowing you I know that you had to focus on that goal. I know you didn’t care what you had to go through. I know you had to face your fears. I know that you both had to pool your information and you both were interested in the same goal!

The reason that communication has broken down is you are being programmed with different information. To come back together you have to know the same things or you will drift further apart. In business you will loss many friends & in relationships the space can get too far to bridge the gap.

The good news is that if you change your interest you can change your life. As you change your program you will attract others with the same information that you value. The same lifestyle you want and are excited about the same things you are excited about. This is what separates the haves and have nots. In business it get down to consumers, creators or producers. I will get into that in a later post.

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